The parenting book that helps you understand why children resist limits, how calm authority builds connection, and why your leadership matters more then you think.
Who Put the Kids in Charge?
This book is about building a family culture that doesn’t rely on punishment, consequences, or giving in.
Not because children get whatever they want.
But because leadership, trust, and connection are already in place.
When parents lead clearly and consistently, children do not need to be controlled.
They cooperate because they feel safe, connected and happy to learn from their parents.
This book shows you how to create a family culture where respect is earned, not forced.
Where children listen because they trust you.
And where parents no longer need to threaten, punish, or negotiate.
What You Will Learn
• Why children push back and what they are actually asking from you
• How to step into leadership in a way that feels natural, confident, and respectful
• How to guide your children without yelling, bribing, or constant reminders
• How to grow a family built on trust, cooperation, and mutual respect that feels lighter and more enjoyable for everyone
What Readers Are Saying
“Thank you for your love and support and thank you for publishing that beautiful book, ‘Who Put The Kids in Charge.’ It made me realise a few adjustments I needed to make. I wanted to be a better father to help my babies develop in the best way and now I can.”
– Kurt Martin, Author
“Sharon has devised easy-to-follow steps that create long-lasting change. I highly recommend this book to any parent who wants more connection, love and fun in their family.”
– Eloisa Grace, Clinical Counsellor
More Praise for Role Model Parenting
Click for a 15 minute video on ‘Who Put the Kids in Charge?’ at the State Library of NSW.
